allnightunderdog asked: My Boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, He is uncomfortable with the thought of going down on me. I don't mind, I've accepted it, but if there is a way of changing his mind on it, I thought I'd ask you. So do you think or know a way I could maybe change his mind towards it?
Generally the thought of it, might gross some people out. But it might be hard to change his mind if he’s uncomfortable with it. However, here’s a good way to change his mind about it.
Explain how it’s not gross in anyway. Or say something along the lines of “if you do it for me, I’ll be more then happy to do it for you.” if you’re comfortable with that sort of thing.
Or make it into a game. Tease him about how you can perform oral better than him, guys are naturally competitive so that should be a surefire way of getting him interested. After he goes down on you and finds that there’s nothing wrong with it there shouldn’t be any problems about doing it again in the future.
But if none of these work you can’t force someone to do something they don’t want to so you guys will have to find something that will give you just as much pleasure that he’s comfortable with doing :)
-Jessie
